Of course nobody wants San or the boys to be harassed. But you cannot control how people react when they are in pain! You simply can't. Some stay silent, others speak out, others shout it to the rooftops, others seek revenge (not the best way but it's HUMAN). It's so crazy how you're willing to see the humanity in the boys saying they aren't perfect, but you're asking those who were harmed to have a perfect response to what hurt them. To sit still and not express their pain because it'll make the one responsible for that pain too "sad." How mean. How cruel. Is this how you were treated when you were in pain? San is strong. A mountain even. He will not break over people asking him to apologize directly for his actions. He will live and learn and grow. And people WILL forgive him. Some already have. But for those still hurting who need to see it from him and the others, he must do more. And that's okay. #KQletthemSPEAK